Have you ever walked into a place of business and searched out for the one person you know could help you? It could be the next person available, or just someone with a friendly demeanor - but you know the one when you see them. If they tell you things you don't want to hear, you argue and ask for a supervisor. Nine times out of ten, you either get what you want or you don't. Normally, you would maybe ask another person's opinion but whatever happens, you get the information you desired. So please explain to me why certain men feel the need to either bypass me totally OR listen to what I have to say and then walk over to the nearest male I am working with and ask their opinion.